tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post8410273990537783635..comments2024-02-15T01:19:18.024-08:00Comments on Ananya Tales: Let it goAnanyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-50656642033042722192016-05-13T13:15:50.368-07:002016-05-13T13:15:50.368-07:00Yes that's the sad reality :(Yes that's the sad reality :(Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-6073971139523100162016-05-13T13:15:12.123-07:002016-05-13T13:15:12.123-07:00Thanks Nikhil for shairng Ur insights. Thanks Nikhil for shairng Ur insights. Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-1265389728074539312016-05-13T13:13:40.225-07:002016-05-13T13:13:40.225-07:00Thanks Ankita for shairng Ur feelings here. I gues...Thanks Ankita for shairng Ur feelings here. I guess it does make us feel better to know that we are not the only one who feels this way. Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-85770673165736162952016-05-13T11:07:07.074-07:002016-05-13T11:07:07.074-07:00This same thing has been happening with me for the...This same thing has been happening with me for the last 4 years and I have slowly begun to heal myself and understand that 'Letting Go' is also a solution instead of sticking to people which quite a few of them term as clinging. As you, I truly believed in staying in friendship no matter what and deeply bonding with people i.e being there for them when they need me even at my own expense. But what had happened was, some folks I knew for many many years even since childhood started taking me for granted to the point of disrespect, a misunderstanding occurred and I tried my best to understand the overall situation and offer compassion and even a resolution but to no effect. What I got as a lesson was, each of us are at different stages in life, and to each relationships hold different meaning, some people don't take friendships as serious as we do.. and the best solution then is for our peace of mind and theirs, let them go.<br /><br />Slowly with time we heal and forget the reciprocal act we thought we would be gifted with.But then again, that's life, old fades and new comes in. Believe me the new people who came in my life are way tuned to what stage of life I am in right now, and so when I miss old I remind myself God has a better plan and if if, at all, they see value in us back, they would come back. But I ain't living in unrealistic hope of them anymore.. Not that I feel liberated yet but I surely feel good about this whole thing of letting go.Ankionthemovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02975209562434289902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-55019215829945509882015-07-02T13:24:24.940-07:002015-07-02T13:24:24.940-07:00It is rare to find friends like you who hold on to...It is rare to find friends like you who hold on to friendships so strongly. I have seen in life that are people like you who hold on to friends. They have the wealth of experiences to understand and tackle new friendships and the misunderstandings with pop up. Most often it is a silly reason or a back stab why precious friendships wither. <br /><br />However when the line breaks we can't do anything Ananya. The same thing happened to me. We give so much to the friendship but they don't care a damn. I agree with your decision. There are more greater flowers in the garden of life.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08967713563907130188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-578207315703883662015-06-04T02:24:11.665-07:002015-06-04T02:24:11.665-07:00ofcourse it happens...ofcourse it happens...Nithyajeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12588220474231360047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-37956087878249154662015-05-28T01:34:05.095-07:002015-05-28T01:34:05.095-07:00Actually marital status affects friendship much mo...Actually marital status affects friendship much more than anything I believe. I have friends who were school mates, but we stay in touch via hangout or whatsapp. Thanks to technology. But once marital status changes, priorities change. No offense but it's better to leave them alone and not bother them much. I usually follow this principle in life. <br /><br />Cheers! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-27508236782955935572015-05-19T12:35:43.296-07:002015-05-19T12:35:43.296-07:00Oh I totally get that Tanuja..its really hard wen ...Oh I totally get that Tanuja..its really hard wen u r single amongst married friends. I feel we sometimes over rate our relationship status in friendship. I understand u were saying the right thing ..in act u were encouragin ur friends in a positive way but alas it back fired ...Happens..<br />Thanks for sharing !Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-10586668976939288292015-05-19T12:32:42.737-07:002015-05-19T12:32:42.737-07:00Thanks Esha for sharing ur views!Thanks Esha for sharing ur views!Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-12510122972766855442015-05-19T12:32:03.644-07:002015-05-19T12:32:03.644-07:00Thats right Lu !Thats right Lu !Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-59086249696177371992015-05-19T07:18:36.127-07:002015-05-19T07:18:36.127-07:00I'm going through a very similar situation and...I'm going through a very similar situation and just today had a bad argument on that. Some friends are married and I'm not.. so a kind of pressure started building up on my I'm so free and How come i'm able to do things that they arn't and how trappy they feel. Why I'm not getting married etc. I suggested them get a little independent and go seek your adventures. Your life is what you make of it. And then all misunderstood me and it got into a really messy thing. :'( <br /><br />Sometimes when things arn't working both side and effort is not from both side to understand or patch up, it's best to give it a break or let it go. <br /><br />Take Ananya :)<br /><br /><br />Love,<br /><br /><a href="http://tanujasethi.blogspot.in/" rel="nofollow">AhoySeptember</a><br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/ahoy.september/" rel="nofollow">facebook</a>TaNujahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05990619185352996346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-87324053000084386902015-05-19T04:01:14.802-07:002015-05-19T04:01:14.802-07:00Very true. Been there Ananya as I had similar noti...Very true. Been there Ananya as I had similar notions of friendships and came to similar conclusions many years ago. Your post reminded me about my own experiences and the associated heartbreaks.Time also acts as a great healer but in the process changes us. Keep writing :-)<br />Eshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01782188085552686592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-61693828100619243322015-05-18T14:44:45.014-07:002015-05-18T14:44:45.014-07:00All you have wrote it's true, I agree with you...All you have wrote it's true, I agree with your words dear! <br />I'm in a similar situation, sometimes it's better let it go and remember the good moments! <br />Have a nice week! :)<br /><br /><a href="http://www.luciagallegoblog.com/" rel="nofollow">Lucia Gallego Blog</a><br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/luciagallegoblog/" rel="nofollow">Lucia Gallego Blog Facebook</a>Lucíahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15723895530005638651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-35586988638523085472015-05-18T11:39:11.615-07:002015-05-18T11:39:11.615-07:00Thanks for stopping by Antonina !
Thanks for stopping by Antonina !<br />Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-48258730410015671412015-05-17T00:56:28.730-07:002015-05-17T00:56:28.730-07:00Wise decision, Ananya! Came to a similar conclusio...Wise decision, Ananya! Came to a similar conclusion a few years back. Antoninahttp://www.indiapalette.com/india-blogs/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-5202633959810093892015-05-17T00:48:49.451-07:002015-05-17T00:48:49.451-07:00Thanks Taani so glad u like my blogs !Thanks Taani so glad u like my blogs !Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-15430376881918948832015-05-17T00:48:12.457-07:002015-05-17T00:48:12.457-07:00That's true Saru !That's true Saru !Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-41521548618293393122015-05-17T00:47:42.888-07:002015-05-17T00:47:42.888-07:00Thanks ravish Thanks ravish Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-80441773089520755682015-05-17T00:47:16.477-07:002015-05-17T00:47:16.477-07:00Thanks Maitreni Thanks Maitreni Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-81274513007918240422015-05-16T10:26:52.850-07:002015-05-16T10:26:52.850-07:00I was like you but when people take advantage of y...I was like you but when people take advantage of you, you feel like doing it no more. Value those who value you, simple. Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-74611635732838343562015-05-16T00:16:07.637-07:002015-05-16T00:16:07.637-07:00Really like your blog.
Its like every one can rela...Really like your blog.<br />Its like every one can relate with it. As all of us goes through this phase later or sooner in our lives.<br />Due to this reason only people become more practical and less emotional as their past taught them a very good lesson.Taanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02493132437698071700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-73463090042120215202015-05-16T00:06:19.646-07:002015-05-16T00:06:19.646-07:00Its easy to say let it go but very difficult to do...Its easy to say let it go but very difficult to do so...<br />I wonder how people changes by the time, their feelings, their priorities, its good to do so in career but not good at all in relationship.<br />And I wish one day they should realize what they loose in their life.Taanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02493132437698071700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-66758272683124199972015-05-15T11:20:22.802-07:002015-05-15T11:20:22.802-07:00How sweet of you! Loved that artistic pic :-) How sweet of you! Loved that artistic pic :-) Ravish Manihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06743610113574998103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-25167615706343360822015-05-15T10:09:27.183-07:002015-05-15T10:09:27.183-07:00Very well put Ananya :')Very well put Ananya :')Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14834500972826425194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1383562954178786919.post-69325770338876129152015-05-15T09:46:21.254-07:002015-05-15T09:46:21.254-07:00Sad but True.. Sad but True.. Ananyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05156727486680867354noreply@blogger.com